Your Undivided Attention
Your Undivided Attention

Ask Us Anything: You Asked, We Answered

Welcome to our first-ever Ask Us Anything episode. We thought it’d be fun at the end of the year to engage our community of listeners by answering your questions. When we created this podcast, the goal was to explore the incredible power technology has over our lives and how we can use it to catalyz

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Executive Summary: In this first Ask Us Anything episode, Tristan and Aza reflect on the podcast’s mission, answer listener questions about education, ethics, business models, policy, and the future of addictive tech, and argue that humane technology requires both cultural change and regulation. They emphasize epistemic humility, community-building, and systemic incentives as the core levers for reform.

Main Topics: Podcast mission and community-building (Priority: 5/5): The hosts explain why the podcast exists: to broaden the conversation beyond privacy and moderation toward the psychosocial effects of technology, and to build a community of people seeking a more humane future. Teaching digital literacy and epistemic humility (Priority: 5/5): In response to a high school librarian, they argue students should learn how beliefs are formed, why social media can function as a false belief factory, and why humility about knowledge is an inoculation against manipulation. Ethics, values, and personal calling (Priority: 4/5): They describe their moral motivation for the work as arising from seeing the harms of the attention economy and from self-examination about ego, shadow, and the kind of people technology is shaping us to be. Leverage with tech companies and policymakers (Priority: 5/5): They discuss direct conversations with tech leaders, internal trust-and-safety work, convenings, and policy efforts, while acknowledging that structural incentives limit how much individual executives can change. Career paths and ecosystem for humane technology (Priority: 4/5): They recommend educational resources, community groups, job boards, and broader systems thinking for students and professionals seeking a career in ethical or humane technology. Business models, scalability, and regulation (Priority: 5/5): They argue that VC-driven growth incentives push apps toward harmful engagement-maximizing behavior, that scale often destroys what is valuable, and that government or platform-level regulation is necessary. Future harms: AI companions and synthetic relationships (Priority: 5/5): They predict the next major risk is not only more addictive apps but AI systems that create emotionally compelling synthetic relationships, increasing dependence amid loneliness and social fragmentation.

Key Arguments: Epistemic humility—asking 'how do I know what I know?'—is a key defense against misinformation and manipulated beliefs. Social media often functions as a false belief factory by shaping beliefs people did not choose themselves. Humane-tech advocacy is more effective when framed as exposing manipulation rather than telling people what is simply 'bad' for them. The attention economy is driven by business models that reward growth, engagement, and addiction, making harmful outcomes structurally likely. A sustainable alternative requires changing incentives through regulation, platform rules, or public-interest obligations—not just individual app design. Smaller, purpose-built, ephemeral, or community-based communication tools can be healthier than mass social platforms. Internal change in tech companies is possible but constrained; champions inside organizations can help, yet many problems are rooted in the business model. Community and shared language reduce hopelessness; people often feel alone rather than merely demoralized in ethical tech work. The next wave of risk may come from AI-driven synthetic relationships that exploit loneliness, intimacy, and social validation. Broader ecosystem approaches, not just new apps, are needed to reform the attention economy and build humane alternatives.

Data Points: Podcast episodes: 60–61 episodes - Hosts describe the show’s run as it enters its break at the end of 2022. Unique downloads: 16 million - They cite cumulative audience reach without advertising or promotion. Listener responses to call for questions: >100 responses - The team received more than 100 questions from listeners worldwide. Countries represented in course registrations: 139 countries - Foundations of Humane Technology course participation. Course registrants: >13,000 people - Registrations for the Foundations of Humane Technology course. Calendar year mentioned for future focus: 2023 - They frame the next major harms, especially AI companionship, as an emerging issue heading into 2023. Platform feature effect: ~10x increase in likes - They describe Instagram’s double-tap heart feature as likely increasing the number of likes received by roughly tenfold.

Pivotal Quotes: "How do I know what I know?" — Tristan: Explaining the core idea of epistemic humility for high school students. "Social media is a kind of false belief factory." — Tristan: Describing how digital environments shape beliefs that users did not consciously choose. "The more power you have, the bigger the responsibility you should have." — Aza: Arguing for public-interest obligations and guardrails on large platforms.

Implications: Listeners are urged to build personal media skepticism, support community-based alternatives, and push for regulation and platform accountability. The industry may face increasing pressure to curb engagement harms and prepare for AI-enabled intimacy risks.

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