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How to Get Sleep in Anxious Times | Dr. Donn Posner

I don't know about you guys, but my sleep has suffered quite badly during the last few months. Today's guest really got me thinking about this issue in a whole new way. First, he normalizes the sleep problems many of us are having. If you're sleeping poorly right now, he says, don

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Executive Summary: Sleep expert Don Posner explains that pandemic-era sleep problems are often acute, stress-driven, and normal—but can become chronic if people panic, overcompensate, or obsess over sleep. He emphasizes structure, especially consistent wake time, morning light, and not staying in bed awake, while warning against overreliance on naps, alcohol, OTC aids, or sleep tracking apps.

Main Topics: Acute vs. chronic insomnia: Posner defines insomnia disorder as trouble falling or staying asleep at least three nights a week for over three months, with daytime impairment; acute insomnia lasts under three months and is usually a stress response. Pandemic stress and disrupted routine: He argues COVID-era stress, work-from-home blur, job insecurity, health fears, and loss of structure are all increasing acute insomnia risk and may lead some people into chronic insomnia. Wake time, light, and circadian entrainment: The single most important lever for sleep is consistent wake time, because morning wake time and daylight exposure set the circadian clock; bedtime should follow from wake time, not the other way around. Behavioral strategies to prevent insomnia from becoming chronic: He recommends regular schedules, daytime activity, limited evening stimulation, short naps only when appropriate, and avoiding compensatory behaviors that worsen sleep timing and conditioning. Middle-of-the-night awakenings and rumination: A core tactic is to leave bed if awake and ruminating, do something enjoyable elsewhere, and return only when sleepy so the bed does not become associated with worry and wakefulness. Sleep aids, alcohol, and marijuana: OTC antihistamines, alcohol, and marijuana may sedate or temporarily help sleep, but they are not good long-term solutions and can create dependence, fragmentation, or tolerance. When to seek professional help: For chronic or subchronic insomnia, Posner recommends evaluation by a behavioral sleep medicine specialist; CBT-I is the preferred treatment and can often be delivered via telehealth.

Key Arguments: Acute insomnia is often a normal, adaptive response to stress and should not trigger panic. The most effective circadian anchor is a consistent wake time, because morning light exposure helps set the sleep-wake clock. Compensating for a bad night by sleeping in, napping too much, or going to bed early can perpetuate insomnia. If you’re awake in bed, you reinforce an association between bed and wakefulness; getting up breaks that conditioning. Most people do not need a universal eight hours; sleep need varies, and many people function well closer to six to seven and a half hours. Finer analysis suggests the biggest health risk may be concentrated among people sleeping under five hours, not everyone below seven. Over-the-counter sleep aids, alcohol, and marijuana may help short term but are not ideal long-term insomnia treatments. CBT-I is the treatment of choice for chronic insomnia and can often be done online without a sleep study unless another sleep disorder is suspected.

Data Points: Duration threshold for chronic insomnia: More than 3 months - Used to define insomnia disorder when symptoms occur three or more nights per week with daytime impairment. Frequency threshold for insomnia disorder: 3 or more nights a week - Part of the formal definition of chronic insomnia disorder. Time threshold for acute insomnia: 3 days to 3 months - Posner says clinicians generally do not diagnose anything before at least three days of symptoms. Recommended nap length: 20 minutes - He recommends a short power nap if napping is needed, ideally after lunch. Typical wakefulness in lab sleep: 15–20 awakenings per night - Normal sleepers wake repeatedly but usually do not remember these brief awakenings. Common sleep need range: About 6 to 9 hours - Posner says individual need varies around the average and rejects a universal 8-hour rule. Average sleep duration cited: About 7.5 hours - He says the mode/average in the U.S. is closer to seven and a half hours. Potentially more concerning sleep threshold: Below 5 hours - He argues that health-risk data become more convincing at very short sleep durations. Short-term pandemic-related sleep pattern: Some people sleeping better than ever - He notes an anecdotal subset improved due to better phase alignment and more suitable schedules.

Pivotal Quotes: "Don't panic. It's normal." — Don Posner: Advice about acute insomnia caused by pandemic-related stress and disrupted routines. "The single most important point of data of input into that clock is wake time." — Don Posner: Explaining why consistent wake-up time and morning light are the main circadian levers. "You cannot make yourself sleep." — Don Posner: He compares sleep to digestion and breathing, emphasizing that effort and monitoring often worsen insomnia.

Implications: Listeners should prioritize regular wake times, morning light, and non-effortful sleep habits over sleep anxiety, trackers, and compensatory behaviors. For persistent insomnia, evidence-based CBT-I and professional assessment matter more than self-treatment.

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